Phone. Dances with Dirt Friend. A good day

RantWoman wishes to thank Dances with Dirt Friend for various strands of phone conversation and for just plunging into the meat of the matter instead of also exchanging some things that might have been cheerful.

 

First RantWoman thanks Dances with Dirt Friend for refresher about an element of Dances with Dirt Friend’s message from worship that RantWoman had forgotten about both seeing and listening. RantWoman appreciates knowing that she is not the only person who cannot necessarily reconstruct what emerged as a message but RantWoman needed the refresher which came from someone else.

 

RantWoman appreciates knowing that Dances with Dirt Friend reads RantWoman’s blog in spite of the opinions Dances with Dirt Friend expressed. RantWoman offers the following invitation to please leave a comment. RantWoman moderates comments. If a comment says “Please DO NOT post” RantWoman will not post. If a comment seems like it would benefit from more Light than RantWoman and Dances with Dirt Friend alone, and the comment has no explicit directions, RantWoman will post the content and omit identifying info. If the comment says please post, RantWoman will just click post as is.

 

Dances with Dirt Friend is one of many people in RantWoman’s life who want to have conversations about changing RantWoman’s behavior but are not capable of having other conversations RantWoman needs in order to be faithful to her Light and adjust behavior. Plus, the more times Rantwoman hears “The only person whose behavior you can change is yours,” the more insistent RantWoman becomes that maybe the utterer needs to take their own medicine.

 

Also, Caution. This is RantWoman. Worse is possible.

 

Put the word Idiot in the search bar. Find the posts where RantWoman is inclined to apologize for not losing her temper sooner or more colorful terms. Please continue to hold all involved in the Light.

 

Consider this item from long ago.

https://rantwomanrsof.blogspot.com/2009/06/eldering.html

 

RantWoman will now be reaching out to others: what were you hoping for from the Care and Accountability Process?  Are you the slightest bit interested in RantWoman's experience of what did or did not work?

 

Also, do you understand the concept of Brave Space?