Clerking…Come to think of it….
Readers aware that RantWoman is
conducting a month-long binge blog are invited to meditate particularly on how
the topics below relate to National Disabilities Employment Awareness Month, #NDEAM,
#NDEAM2020, Pedestrian Safety Month #PedestrianSafetyMonth, and Breast Cancer
Awareness Month. Please be assured, RantWoman can get there easily though not
concisely!
Think Better-run Meetings for Business. Think minutes that reflect actual clear instructions to committees.Think how principles of inclusion can make both workplace and Meeting for business saner.
Think the focus skills one acquires fitting public testimony into the time boxes prescribed.
Think RantWoman's REPEATED offers to clerk short-term activities so people do not have to commit to a whole year.
Think RantWoman AGAIN being tempted to put on some kind of SuperWoman cloak and needing to be ....
Lexicography note: Clerking is Quakerese for "meeting facilitation."
Digression They also serve who know bookkeeping.
RantWoman is meditating about some recent meeting experiences.
One was a Meeting for Business. Some small moment of bookkeeping
clarity came up while Friends were reviewing minutes. Only one person in the
room noticed. RantWoman would be happier actuall if there were more people in
the room who both have bookkeeping skills and have the clarity to stand and
asked to be recognized when small corrections need to be made.
Another moment: a board meeting for a blindness nonprofit. RantWoman
was THRILLED by the precision with which the young blind treasurer articulated
the different bookkeeping issues coming up in the discussion. It’s not just
that the treasurer is competent and articulate. This thrill is also because
RantWoman is REALLY bad at “clerical speed and accuracy.” Being a good
bookkeeper requires a lot of both of those things. RantWoman is permitting herself to be awed though by the work being done by a blind person. RantWoman imagines that good skills of blindness and experience with screen reader technology are part of the picture.
Another Moment: a b was a Meeting for Worship for Business. Matters of
bookkeeping and process were coming up. The clerk was thinking of moving forward with the initiative. RantWoman is articulate, overeducated and certain she is entitled to offer her opinion. From the discussion, it was clear that the matter needed to be held over. As RantWoman considers issues, though, the POINT of the discussion was to arrive at some sense of the concerns from those present and either implicit or explicit instructions from Business Meeting to the committees following up. RantWoman realized she had already spoken many times. RantWoman decided instead of speaking, she just needed the rest of the room to articulate its concerns, but another infamous RantWoman email was born. RantWoman spoke of some experiences. When exasperated feedback came back, RantWoman APPRECIATED the immediacy and basically told the two people she addressed that she trusted them to use her words as they were led.
Digression No. 2. Care of Community. Is RantWoman just over the top again?
The last Business meeting referenced above was also considering revising the community email policy. RantWoman has two twitches and she has little basis for having an opinion specifically about this Meeting.
First, RantWoman restated her concern that for notices like announcements of death or pastoral care moments such as medical issues, tolerating reply/all can help people see how the community is connected. RantWoman especially appreciates this because it is so hard for her to connect with people in the first place. RantWoman remembers a moment when the Clerk decided RantWoman's concern was covered by one piece of wording. RantWoman can live with that thought but is now wondering whether she should have pushed a little harder to have her point documented in minutes. For now, RantWoman can live with articulating her concern herself in her own words and feeling disappointed at the lack of enthusiastic embrace from others but grateful at least to be heard by several people instead of being told that one person decided on her behalf..
Second, RantWoman expressed a wish that there be explicit mention in the email policy that the clerk would follow up on troubling things that might come up in email. Examples in RantWoman's weirdo mind including indications of family trouble or reactions to, say, weird messages in worship Again, at least RantWoman said her piece and people seemed to get it, but RantWoman's wish for more explicit wording did not happen. RantWoman will live with that.
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