Tuesday, June 25, 2019

Marches: Rhythm, Folks.Rhythm


RantWoman’s media streams are full of marches, not even counting the Fremont Solstice Parade.

 

RantWoman generally finds it easy to find movements of holy spirit around marches even though these days RantWoman sometimes just stays home and watches on Twitter.

 

In HongKong, fully a third of the population has been marching in opposition to the proposed extradition agreement with China. Thank you Trevor Noah, in another video besides the one here, for the theory that people turned out for the HUGE marches because all the porn sites in Hong Kong were shut down.

 

In the republic of Georgia, not to be confused with the state of Georgia, people are marching against Russian presence and practices. RantWoman has zero command of the Georgian language but was struck during one video about how churchy the singing / chanted sounded.

 

It is June and Pride marches are everywhere, along with—new wrinkle—RantMom grumbling about needing to share the rainbow.

 

All that is run-up for Trevor Noah. He talks about many South Africa specifics, but there is much truth here about vibes in the US.

 

Enjoy.




Sunday, June 23, 2019

Talking Reparations and Juneteenth: How To Take Reparations From The Hypothetical To Reality! | Full Frontal...


RantWoman wishes to offer thanks for opportunities to observe #Juneteenth.
 
1.       There was a discussion of reparations and local redlining at RantWoman’s Meeting. It conflicted with Wednesday worship, so RantWoman was half in half out, but RantWoman is very grateful it occurred and will be seasoning her personal call as far as next steps.

 

2.       That afternoon, there was a long series of tweets from @Maco_nix about Quakers, the underground railroad, and who does or does not deserve credit for what.

 

3.       Opportunity for many discussions departing from the charming item below including a clip of Sen. Mitch McConnell hemming and hawing about the topic and various other atonement moments.



Friday, June 14, 2019

Just Gameify it. John Oliver - World of Peacecraft

RantWoman's media feeds include FAR TOO MUCH of Trumpty Dumpty, with the news cycle screaming past the moments in this video to whole new hardware in whole new locations..

RantWoman's excessively plain English to Quakerese filter is having to work overtime this week.

RantWoman's better self at least in the aspirational sense is trying to put in an appearance.

How better to honor these moments than John Oliver! Definitely watch to the end.



Wednesday, June 12, 2019

Happy Anniversary RantParents


This post is dedicated to:

 
Quaker Honorary Auntie, her long friendship with the RantFamily, particularly RantMom and DantDad  and to all the people who looked after her for 20 years when she could no longer look after herself

 
RantMom and RantDad for whom today would be their 59th wedding anniversary.
 

The 60th anniversary of RantMom’s graduation from college just to add to a pile of anniversaries this year.

 

RantMom bio: the short version


(RantMom) was born in Colorado in 1937.  Raised on a farm, (RantMom's) chores included carrying well water and washing laundry with a wringer washer. By age 6, she had learned to bake bread in a woodstove. Along with 4 siblings, (RantMom) was very involved in 4H. She was also an accomplished seamstress, winning the state Make It Yourself with Wool competition while in high school.

 

(RantMom) earned her B.S. in Home Economics from Colorado State University in Fort Collins in 1959. At 21 she accepted a teaching position in Absaroke, MT where she met her husband, (RantDad), also a teacher in the school. They married after their first year of teaching together. By the end of the second year, their older daughter (RantWoman)  was born. (RantBrother and Little Sister) were born in Gunnison while (RantDad was on the music faculty at Western State College.

 

Seeking stronger educational opportunities for their children, (the RantParents) moved back to Montana in 1972. After her husband passed away in 1995, RantMom remained in Billings, working at the YMCA and staying active in her church, garden club and as a symphony usher.

 

RantMom held a series of jobs in Billings before serving as director of childcare centers at the YMCA for 16 years. Prior to her retirement, she ran the member snack bar for another 4 years. (RantMom) worked through a first bout with cancer in 2004, then retired to battle a second cancer in early 2005.

 

In 2006, finally cancer free, RantMom sold her home of 30 years and moved to Seattle to be near her daughters, and young grandson. RantMom has volunteered regularly at the Seattle Cancer Care Alliance since 2007 and has been a member of Rainier Beach Presbyterian Church since her arrival in Seattle.

 

 

May 21, 2019


Bio: the longer version


(RantMom) was born in Durango CO in 1937. She was the oldest daughter and second of 5 children of (Farmer Grandparents)  The family grew up on a ranch east of Ignacio. All of the kids had many chores: carrying water, gathering eggs, cleaning the chicken coop, tending the gardens, milking cows.

 

(RantMom) and her siblings were very involved in 4H. (RantMom) also learned to sew and one year she one the state Make It Yourself with Wool competition. Both parents came from large families so holiday gatherings involved many aunts, uncles, and cousins. (RantMom) learned to bake bread—in a wood stove--by the time she was 6.

 

(RantMom) and her two sisters rode the same horse to school until (RantMom) entered high school and switched to riding in a truck with her older brother and a cousin. The last two summers (RantMom) was in high school, she was pretty much in charge of all the cooking, canning, and food activities for the household and farm crew. RantMom’s mother was away at college getting her teaching certification, a new requirement in CO even though her mother had been teaching for 25 years.

 

(RantMom) earned a degree in Home Economics from Colorado State University in Fort Collins. Shortly after she graduated in 1959, she accepted a job teaching Science and Home Ec in Absaroke MT. Perhaps a sign of things to come, (RantMom's)  first night in MT was rocked by an earthquake. In Absaroke (RantMom) met husband who taught English and music. After their first year of teaching together they married; shortly after their second year of teaching, their older daughter (RantWoman) was born in nearby “big city” Billings and the young family moved to Missoula MT so that (rantDad) could pursue an MA in music. Next the family moved to Gunnison CO where (RantDad) taught on the music faculty at what was then Western State College and RantBrother and Little Sister  also arrived.

 

(RantMom) was busy enough with 3 kids of her own, but when the family bought a large Victorian home, RantMom also opened a home daycare. There were several happy years full of music, college students who sang in RantDad’s church choir, and growing children. In 1972, partly to seek stronger educational opportunities for their kids, the RantParents  moved back to MT, settling in Billings. For a litte while both parents were self-employed. RantMom  operated another daycare center and RantDad offered oboe, bassoon, and recorder lessons. After a few months of stress from incompatible sound environment needs, RantMom accepted a job as lunch lady at her kids’ elementary school; RantDad also augmented his music studio income by accepting a job as choir director at First Baptist Church. RantDad also later served for a time as the Business Manager of the Billings Symphony.

 

As the kids grew up, graduated from High School, and went off to college, RantMom had a series of jobs, first at a fabric store, then a costume and rental store before settling in at the YMCA to run the
 member nursery and later the snack bar which served all the lawyers and judges and other people who came to the YMCA to work out on theirlunch breaks.

 

(RantDad) passed away in 1995 but RantMom  remained in Billings working at the YMCA and staying active in St Andrew’s Presbyterian Church and garden club until 2006. (RantMom) worked at the YMCA all the way through treatment for colon cancer. She retired in 2005 when she was diagnosed with endometrial cancer and was going to need both chemo and radiation.

 

By the end of the second cancer (RantMom) was clear she wanted to be closer to her daughters and only grandson. In 2006, (RantMom) sold the house she had lived in for over 30 years and moved to SE Seattle. She also quit driving and became a big fan of the bus system. (RantMom) now volunteers with the Seattle Cancer care Alliance and is an active participant at Rainier Beach Presbyterian Church.

Tuesday, June 11, 2019

Koran in the Elevator and Ironies


Morning cosmopolitanism


Neighbor was playing reading of the Koran in the elevator. Those present agree we like and are not bothered by everyone’s different music in the elevator

  

D-Day 75th Anniversary Irony 1:


The Night Witches article referenced here came to RantWoman via  a post in the Women’s PEACE Camp facebook group.

 

 
 Can anyone besides RantWoman recognize that irony?

 
Peace camp women are still badasses though these days the Facebook group brings memorials as well as political event announcements. RantWoman is particularly thinking of two wise Quaker women who were really, really, really good at pulling threads of agreement and action out of conversations full of passion, Personalities, trauma histories and .gnarly politics.
 
Cue Holly Near “…keep doing the things you were doing as if I were two…”

 Like, some of those Keep Doing things are probably needed twice as much as ever. RantWoman does not have twice as much energy, and ….
 

D-Day 75th Anniversary Irony 2 with a large side of CREEPOUT:


The picture here was taken of counterprotestors at a Gay Pride Event in Detroit. In 2019
 

 
Nazi Flag flying at Gay Pride protest in Detroit.


Via @CatValente a few days ago

This was Detroit. Today. It’s not a film set. It’s not viral marketing. This is happening in America right now. Because some people would rather be literal Nazis than tolerate the mere existence of LGBTQ and anyone different than themselves This was Detroit. Today. It’s not a film set. It’s not viral marketing. This is happening in America right now. Because some people would rather be literal Nazis than tolerate the mere existence of LGBTQ and anyone different than themselves"This was today in Detroit.

It’s not a film Set. It’s not viral marketing.

 
This is happening in America right now.

Because some people would rather be literal Nazis than tolerate the existence of LGBTQ people and anyone different from themselves."

Saturday, June 8, 2019

Love, email


Kill them with Kindness?

 

RantWoman remembers a long ago protest where some of the people protesting means to make war got exasperated and made signs that said “Kill the Deathmongers.” Um, PEOPLE?

 

RantWoman has been meditating on the This I Believe series in Adult Education at her Meeting. RantWoman does not generally have a God as Personal Butler model of divine presence, but does have a sense of being loved by God, of others being loved by God, and of seeking paths of Love.

 

 RantWoman believes in a versatile god who gets things done lots of ways. RantWoman’s Divine presence likes to be venerated and is not too picky about the forms of veneration except that it is preferable that people not kill each other in the process of figuring out veneration or anything else like living together, traffic, technology, gardening, setting up chairs so they don’t increase the odds that someone will trip over them… Oh wait, the chairs get their own post.

 

Anyway, kill them with kindness is probably not quite the meme either.

 

The Still Didn’t get the Memo committee on Email Immoderation is holding in the Light two threads of community conversation. RantWoman keeps asking God what to do and God’s response seems to be, “um, RantWoman, you are not doing so well so maybe can you let me handle it for awhile? You are dealing with people who while not experience the coping capacity generation tumults of blindness, nevertheless have other reservoirs of coping capacity that can be drawn in.Think getting back up on the horse. Think which experiments can we try not to repeat? ”

 
One Friend has offered the suggested Nom De Blog Prefers Email Friend. RantWoman does not quite know what to make of that preference. Sometimes RantWoman would actually wish to say THANK YOU. But RantWoman’s  inbox also contains a sequence of growling emails. One exchange awhile ago prompted RantWoman simply to offer to hold in the Light. RantWoman would characterize the response as growling. Recently RantWoman received in response basically to a please hold in the Light request sent to many people as a reply/all with changed subject line email that just said in all caps “PLEASE DO NOT EMAIL ME.” RantWoman keeps wondering how that is supposed to work considering other hats that Prefers Email Friend wears.

 
RantWoman is finding herself seasoning the call to say, “Friend, at this point if you need to have a temper tantrum, is there someone you would like to sit here with you to hold space and hold you in the Light?  RantWoman can probably do it, but if there is someone you would rather…,.” RantWoman is unclear how this offer would be received. If it is received badly, RantWoman is at the point of just saying “Friend, Take it up with God!”
 
The other thread has to do with Reply/All and how it propagates discomfort. RantWoman understands a clear Owww. RantWoman has stated two points of view about the topic: On one hand, for some moments of community life, RantWoman finds reply/all extremely valuable in nurturing community. On the other hand, RantWoman hears some clear Owwws. RantWoman is willing to do the best she can to TRY to avoid future ows but can never ever promise she will not get triggered beyond what she has learned to recognize or lose her temper, RantWoman knows that owws sometimes subside over time for various reasons. RantWoman is also annoyed by a response from one spectator to an apology and RantWoman is seasoning whether to tell Spectator Friend to Take it Up With God too. But Spectator Friend gets further Light in the pending Chairs reflection.

 

Um, okay God, um…?

 

In Light and Faithfulness.

 

RantWoman

Tuesday, June 4, 2019

Now not just after some committee gets created


RantWoman’s Meeting is seasoning a minute to create an Ad-hoc Committee on Disabilities. Mid-email stream, here is RantWoman’s Light about various questions:

 

There are some long-standing OWWW’s and laboring with from RantWoman’s perspective.

 

The Draft minute proposes to see what can be done within a year with two reports to Business Meeting and discernment about possible ongoing work.

 

There are some Deal with It NOW issues that in RantWoman’s estimation need action without waiting around for the committee to get created.

 

RantWoman tartly notes a conversation with Young College Professor Friend about reasonable accommodations requests: handling such is part of her job description. Most of the ones she gets are routine and easy to fulfil. AND she does not seem as RantWoman observes to require “healing” when the requests come in. RantWoman is TRYING to be patient about the word “healing,” but RantWoman also seems to have a Live on Planet earth reflex about basic knowledge. Bless us oh Lord and help us all figure out how to live with…

 

Ahead of a retreat now scheduled for September: Accessible event planning including paths to request reasonable accommodations and expectation that needs for such can behandled without a requestor being hung up on and can be talked about on a finite timeline BEFORE the actual event. Please hold RantWoman’s fixations about these points in the Light. Suffice it to say the fixations are from past moments also freighted with bad communications. RantWoman wants to just uphold Room For Improvement and not keep beating the same long-dead horses. Okay, Rantwoman is TRYING.

 

Elements of Accessibility for Meeting for Business

                Process

                Can MfB handle it when honest factual questions come up?

                How does one lovingly elder elders who persist in, um, ….?

 

Goal: clear reflection of disability work and issues in minutes, Understanding of other accessibility aspects of minutes such as timeliness and email distribution.

 

Goal: Knowledge of and shared understanding Basic day to day accessibility such as chair configuration in the worship room and speaking publicly about such as well as willingness just to do small tasks as needed. Here RantWoman deeply blesses one Friend now past 80 who helped RantWoman gang the worship room chairs. Um, Friends, this is easy. One does not need to wait around until one is past 80 to learn….

 

Goal: Increased Knowledge and Shared Understanding of key terms including Reasonable Accommodation and Public Accommodation

 

Goal: Increase knowledge and Shared understanding of concepts of allyship, spiritual accompaniment and ways of walking the experience together.

 

Other outputs promised from draft minutes: glossary and resource list. How can RantWoman make this clearer?

 

In general RantWoman hopes this will be a community building exercise. But RantWoman had a mental hiccup: RantWoman wanted to do community building on a theme of Yucky Topics festival including disaster Preparedness. RantWoman had in mind shared info resources and the opportunity to do some kind of practical info exchange:” can I call you up if I am in your neighborhood when the Big One hits?” Instead rantWoman got emanation in Adult Religious Ed based on a Friend’s experience at work. It was not terrible but, sadly, attendance at ARE is sparse and …

 

 

RantWoman also hopes there will be space and comfort to tell personal or family stories. RantWoman is a big fan of narrative theology and RantWoman knows there are stories to hear. RantWoman thinks this should be a really important part of the Ad-Hoc Committee’s work. RantWoman also thinks creating the space for stories will be tender work.

 

RantWoman wants BUSINESS MEETING not just the same old list of people who go to the Business Meeting prep called Coordinating Committee to have a role in setting proiorities from the list in the draft minute.  RantWoman is into world domination and single standard of Truth. RantWoman hopes that the Ad-hoc committee work will enrich both the community and people’s lives outside Meeting. Other than that, RantWoman has only modest expectations..

 

In Light and Faithfulness.

 

RantWoman

Monday, June 3, 2019

Psychic snapshot


Tonight’s psychic snapshot
 

Cranky?

RantWoman, how are you?

 
Cranky, Irascible and Blessed. Which would you like more of?

 
And how is that working out for you?

 
Surprisingly well sometimes. Most people are happy to bypass cranky, but mentioning it does make both people who would bypass and people happy for an excuse to embrace the cranky laugh.

 
 

DWBH

This blog reference dedicated to “Don’t Worry Be Happy Friend.”  Don’t Worry Be happy Friend is (choose 1)

                A new nom de blog for someone who has a different one too?

                A composite character with overtones of “does not get it” about something important?

                A composite for a gender issue RantWoman needs to meditate carefully about how to present.

Never mind. Just read the blog post

 

Horoscope: flattery


We interrupt this electronic snapshot for an item via Horoscope land. RantWoman’s online horoscope today warned her about false flattery. The horoscope did not mention multiple not entirely idiomatic blog comments from some curtain and blind company in Singapore:

 
“An impressive share! A very creative and valuable article. Well 
appreciated. Visit curtain and blinds singapore provides a high quality in 
a very affordable price.”

 
RantWoman will try not to let the praise go to her head.

 

 Prayer electronically

From the prayer call reminder email: “Good Sunday morning!  It's a beautiful day in the Lord!”
RantWoman KNOWS she needs to be praying with these people. RantWoman thinks God gets to be in charge if the language gets to be too much. 

A couple of things I read

A guy named Johan Maurer who with his wife was longtime Quaker
missionaries in the Russian city of elektro Stal 2 hours E of Moscow.
https://blog.canyoubelieve.me/2019/05/out-of-order.html

 
and Peggy Parsons. Peggy has done lots of trauma recovery work in
Africa. She has a book called Miracle motors about motorcycles in
Africa and the western US. One minute she is quoting Scripture and
talking to angels. The next minute she is talking about the
thermodynamics of motorcycle riding in different kinds of weather.

Here Rocinante  (Don Quixote allusion) is her current bike. Peggy also
definitely believes in signs from God and I have to say the picture
cracks me up.


 

And two more which I will not remember enough to talk about unless I
am looking at..

 
http://www.meetinghouse.xyz/everything/2016/2/8/culture-blindness-and-the-bible
http://www.meetinghouse.xyz/everything/2016/2/16/on-disenchantment-and-change

 
I think the blizzard of articles is partly also to help us reflect on
pacing and cultivating common experiences and common understandings.
AND I have more to say about timeliness abut that is a separate
message.

 
In Light and faithfulness

RantWoman

 


 

Sunday, June 2, 2019

Interrupted!


RantWoman is still crafting a post about "that was NOT RantWoman; it was the grace of GOD" about RantWoman and the most recent Meeting for Business. RantWoman has MUCH more to say, but first RantWoman is going to savor a number of thoughts.

1.       RantWoman spoke of the following news item last week during Joys and Concerns. https://rantwoman.blogspot.com/2019/05/new-5-year-access-paratransit-contract.html

 

2.       After worship RantWoman WOULD have made many of the points below, except she was interrupted and interrupted in a way that was going to short-circuit her brain in a “Nothing Good is going to come out direction.

 

a.       "Oh my, YES, it IS possible to deal with people with disabilities behaviors IN actual meetings AS WELL AS ADA / Disability related content on a finite timeline with all kinds of Personalities and gnarly money and policy issues on the table to boot.

 

b.      My goodness Quaker say some of us believe in continuing revelation. How very nice that Quakers have been having meetings for over 350 years, but the world around us and expectations about things like technologies and practices to INCLUDE people with disabilities have evolved A LOT in that time. What might we all learn...?

 

c.       Maybe RantWoman gets to think, who cares what Quakers are doing or not doing in our own bubble? A whole lot of people SHOULD be able to expect better service and a better deal for taxpayers to boot! Then the words Title 2 ADA obligations crawl across RantWoman’s mind with respect to one Friend in the picture and RantWoman starts to think all kinds of thoughts about glorious opportunity to learn and single standard of Truth and… Readers, PLEASE hold these crawls in the Light.

 

3.       RantWoman wishes to thank both people who spoke to RantWoman recognizing this good news AND Interrupting Friend. RantWoman was pretty blunt in a phone call. Interrupting Friend assures RantWoman that a note of apology written in big marker is in the  snail mail, to the email address in the directory which RantWoman does not visit every day. Okay. RantWoman would not have objected in the least to email, and PUBLIC apology would never be objectionable either. More importantly, Interrupting Friend admitted to being vexed by technology AND reported successful peer support from another Friend. That is more than enough to save a different electronic immoderation thread for another post.

 

4.       RantWoman was not done though! Time for announcements that did not make it into the bulletin.

 

a.       The newly cleaned carpets look GREAT even to RantWoman.

b.      The worship room chairs got put back just fine except for two points:

                                                               i.      Aisles need to be 36” wide to allow space for wheelchair users to turn around

                                                             ii.      There are fire code reasons it is a good idea to gang / connect by the pre-installed hook mechanism, our chairs. It’s easy to do …

c.       Interrupting Friend again “it looks like they are ganged.” They are not. Do you want to ask rantWoman how she knows the chairs are not ganged? Hint it has to do with the 36” piece of minutia above, one of those small details which MANY people COULD learn and which RantWoman will continue to be faithful about regardless?

 

5.       RantWoman wishes to appreciate one Friend who perhaps was listening in Business Meeting when chair purchase was discussed: the fire code recommends chairs that can be ganged because rows of chairs are harder to tip over if people need to flee because of fire. Listening Friend (who has earned another Nom De Blog remembered about the fire issue. That left RantWoman also to bring up a riot control issue which RantWoman remembers, among other reasons, because of various event usher / event security / event staff gigs: chairs that are ganged are also harder to turn into missiles and to some extent easier to push out of the way than chairs that are not ganged. But back to the Quaker bubble? “Um riot control unlikely to be needed around Quakers?” RantWoman: please do not assume RantWoman is the only person in the room with at least peripheral contact with riot control issues. Start by translating “riot control” to nonviolent witness.

We will now resume interaction with other seasonal RantWoman interactions with the space time continuum, in a separate blog.

 

In Light and Faithfulness.

 

RantWoman